In February, I had fun making a YouTube video about the Orchid Method to Find Your Perfect Partner. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DBT6YPqkYFc&feature=youtube_gdata.

This BTB feng shui practice, given to me by H.H. Grandmaster Lin Yun www.yunlintemple.org  uses a botanical symbol of perfection to find the person just right for you. If you already have the ideal mate, no need for The Orchid Method. However, if you are ready for a partnership, not with just anyone, but with someone who has the qualities for an ideal match, The Orchid Method can help you.

Don’t visualize a specific person.  Instead, think of the personal characteristics you hold dear and let go. “I want a man who loves to cook.”  And “I want a mate who loves island vacations,” write authors, Karin Sterling Anderson and Beth Roberts in their E-Book, Finding Your Mate Online, available at www.findingyourmateonline.com.

Roberts and Anderson, who found their ideal husbands online, teach men and woman how to “screen” potential mates by creating a list of criteria and selectively applying these criteria to the pool of online candidates to narrow down the field to 1 – 15 individuals. Develop a list of qualities, interests and characteristics that you most desire in a mate. Be clear about what you want. For example, you want a mate who plays golf or who likes to curl up to watch a foreign film. The authors give helpful advice to streamline the online search for a perfect partner, and they also admit the process takes work.

The Orchid Method to Find Your Perfect Partner, available at www.fengshuioptions.com will take some of the “work” out of finding your ideal mate, whether on the above website or on perfectmatch.com, by accessing invisible help from the universe to facilitate the process.  Your partner may even come from a place other than online! Follow the instructions. Visualize the qualities you want in your partner. Have a positive attitude and treat people with kindness and compassion. Be open to the perfect partner coming to you. Let go and be ready to receive.